How do we love?

In reference to this beautiful article that I read, I Wanted to jot down a little something.

“LOVE is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it”. You can breath it not see it, live it but it never dies ! Love is when you feel butterflies in your tummy when you see that someone, Love is when you constantly think of that someone, love is much more beyond anything  and everything.



An excerpt from A walk to Remember ( The new american Bible now) can say it much better. It reads:

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy.
Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;
It is not self-seeking, nor easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongdoing.
It does not delight in evil,
But rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, and preserves.
There is nothing love cannot face;
There is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things that last forever:
Faith, hope, and love;
But the greatest of them all is love.

We tend to forget how to love someone when we are actually in love. We pick a human and decide to love them. We are such monotonous beings.  Without suffering, there’d be no compassion. We are in love, yet not !

Love is this irresistible feeling that you just cannot contain anymore, It overflows.

Love like you love sugar and sugar is the best thing in your life. Love like there is no tomorrow, there is no guarantee you might even survive tomorrow. Love like you have loved before and you know what is on the other side of it. Love like you have been broken because you know what can “make you” can also “break you”.

Love like you have have been waiting for it and you have never been loved before. Love like you deserve it, because only you know someone has broken your heart. Love like you have spent ages learning how to love, because you know only you can complete the love, without you there is no “Us”. Love like you own the day and the rest of it is going to be just fine.

Love like you have been broken, not once not twice but many times. Love like this is all a dream and everything is picture perfect and nothing can  absolutely go wrong. Love like this is all an illusion. Love  someone so much that they understand that you are trying hard to win them back everyday, without that with every passing day you lose them . Love and show forgiveness to people who deserve it.

Love like you know the dirtiest secrets of loving someone so bad that you don’t mind going to the same dirty streets again. Love someone like they are miracles in this world. Love like it was worth loving someone.Love like it was worth an experience. Love like you have been hurt before and would not mind getting hurt again because love is irrevocable and unconditional and mysterious .    One should keep trying to fall in love because love is an undeniable feeling, its an inclination to accept life and everything around you, its the strongest desire to feel for somebody, its an infinity and beyond feeling, Inescapable and unattainable feeling that you long to achieve .

Now that you know how to fall in love, you are just not blindly falling into it. You will walk Chin Up, head held high and also of course because you are choosing to feel this, to love and be loved. Be longed and hugged and cuddled. You also learn to accept the fact that things that make you rejoice life can also break you to pieces. You also accept that it hurts but you grow as a better person and as a better beloved. They can tear you apart. But you my friend, chose to love beyond these uncertainties and chose to fall in sheer love.

Love is fierce, Love is violent, Love is searing, Love is powerful. Love is anything that you make of it And each heartbreak is worth experiencing and substantial. Love is just a risk you are willing to take !







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